People come to me about erections, orgasm, pain, desire that's gone missing and desire that never matched in the first place. Also: sex that's become a negotiation, a relationship that works everywhere except the bedroom, bodies changed by illness, surgery, medication or childbirth, sex after an affair, first sexual experiences later than most people's, and the sense that everyone else got instructions you didn't.
If yours isn't in that list, it still counts. Most people can't name it neatly when they first get in touch
How psychosexual therapy can help
Something in your body or your relationship isn't working the way you want it to.
Erection difficulties
Your body used to be reliable. Now you're monitoring it.
Ejaculation concerns
It happens too fast, or it doesn't happen. Either way it's setting the terms.
Orgasm difficulties
You get close, and then it goes.
Low desire and desire differences
One of you wants it. One of you doesn't. Neither of you is saying so.
Painful sex and chronic pain
Sex hurts, and you've stopped mentioning it or you're avoiding it.
Menopause and sexual wellbeing
Everything about your body has shifted, including this.
Sexual confidence
You're managing sex rather than enjoying it.
Sex after sexual trauma
Something happened and it's still in the room.
Nothing here needs explaining to me first.
Kink-aware and sex-positive
I already know the vocabulary.
LGBTQIA+ affirming
Your identity isn't the thing we're working on, unless you want it to be.
Polyamory and ENM
However many people are involved, that's where we start.
Sex, neurodivergence and intimacy
Sensory limits, scripts nobody taught you, and the gap between wanting and tolerating.
“If you are always trying to be normal, you will never know how amazing you can be.”
―Maya Angelou